Review the following 'Questions To Ask' about caregiving so you're prepared to discuss this important health issue with your health care professional.

1. My mother seems more confused than usual. Could some of the confusion be related to the medication she is taking?

2. What medications are available to help slow the progress of my father's mental deterioration or to reduce his agitation? What are the side effects?

3. My sister has MS, and I'm taking care of her. How do I help her maintain her independence?

4. My adult daughter is in the final stages of cancer. Can you recommend a hospice?

5. I prepare all of my father's meals. What do I need to know about his nutritional requirements?

6. Can you recommend some support groups?

7. My father seems to be losing some of his motor control. Would occupational or physical therapy help? If so, can you provide a referral?

8. Do you have some simple exercises my mother can do to help maintain her muscle strength and balance?

9. Do you accept Medicare patients?

10. My brain-damaged brother will need a convalescent home soon, but he's only in his 40s. Can you recommend facilities that have programs geared to younger residents?