Q I have a co-worker in her 30s who is married, looking for a house in the suburbs, planning to have a baby, etc., and she is constantly asking me inappropriate questions.

I am in my 30s and haven’t taken a traditional path in that I am not married, and live alone in the city. I am not sure if she is “sizing me up,” curious about my life choices or just plain nosy. While I would obviously want to find love, I am intellectually and socially fulfilled.

She has asked what my bra size is, where I buy my bras, my pants size, how much my rent is, why am I not dating.

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