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Drag Diva Michelle Michaels performs at the March 25 drag show in Hendrix Theater.
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Students take up gay cause



By Kristin Day
The Daily Reflector


Thursday, April 16, 2009

Shawn Michaels does not want to be a woman.

The 6'1” son of a military man got involved in the drag business after a successful dare in Texas. He won the nightclub's contest and three months rent, and spent the next 10 years taking his show to new audiences as Michelle Michaels.

“I was really good at drag,” Michaels said. “I didn't want to go out and be pretty. I wanted to shock the audience.”

He's good at that, too.

On Wednesday, March 25, the GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender) Student Union at East Carolina University held a drag show for Diversity Week with Michaels acting as hostess. She, along with former double for Reba McEntire Coti Collins, Dorea Saunders from “America's Got Talent,” and former Miss NC USofA Ebony Addams, entertained more than 600 cheering and screaming students, dancing along the aisles of Hendrix Theater throughout a show complete with hit music, risqué comedy and athletics.

On Thursday, March 26, reflector.com posted a slide show of the event. Readers quickly responded.

Some supported the decision to cover the event. More said the slide show was appalling. Commenters said it was irresponsible for ECU to expose students to such filth, or the entertainers were disgusting, fat and destined for hell for their sexual orientation. Comments rolled in for 16 days.

“It is very sad that our precious students have to be exposed to this at the university. They can find this kind of perversion on their own.” — Gail, on reflector.com

A few weeks later, the GLBT Student Union had its final meeting for the year to hold elections and prepare for today, the National Day of Silence. Supporters will spend a portion — if not all — of today in silence to recognize those who remain voiceless about their sexual orientation out of fear. They, along with the Student Health Center, College of Human Ecology, the Ledonia Wright Cultural Center and the Office of Institutional Diversity, sponsored events all week and will conclude with the March of Silence — from College Hill Drive to the Free Speech Zone in front of Joyner Library — at 2:30 p.m. Once they reach the end, they will break their silence with an explosion of screams.

Members are no strangers to discrimination. Even next year's female vice president Shiloh Canale, a heterosexual, says she's been subject to hate speech just for being involved in the GLBTSU. Still, some remarks left on the Reflector's Web page were hard to swallow for Christien Harden, current president of the GLBTSU.

“A lot of comments were expected,” Harden said. “But I didn't expect so many supporters.”

“I've run into a lot of discrimination,” Michaels said a few days later. “But the very closed-minded opinions that were publicized were very shocking.”

It's something GLBTSU members remain baffled over. They say it's a world of confusing give and take when Vermont and Iowa approve gay marriage laws, but during the same week, 11-year-old Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover of Massachusetts hangs himself after years of schoolmates' taunts calling him gay.

Early Tuesday morning, Fayetteville police answered a call that led them to drag performer Jimmy Ali McCollough, 34, dead on Joseph Street. Officials hadn't yet released details, but WRAL.com reported that McCollough had been stabbed and police were investigating a possible hate crime.

When it comes to bigoted words, members of the GLBTSU say they've learned to simply smile back and reply “sorry you feel that way” or maybe blow a kiss.

“I guess humor goes a long way,” said GLBTSU member Moses.

Michaels believes most of the negative reactions occur when people feel homosexuality and drag is being thrown in their faces.

“But drag queens have been such a fixture in the gay community,” he said, adding that Diversity Week events also included a showing of the film “Milk,” a biographical movie about the life of an American gay activist, and a presentation from a bisexual speaker. “You can't do a gay event and not have a drag queen.”

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To Reality

04/23/2009 01:01:53 PM

A eunuch is not a gay man, but a castrated man or a boy whose testes did not fully develop

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To Mike

04/23/2009 12:49:00 PM

1 Corinthians 6:8-10 (NIV); Leviticus 18:22 (NLT)

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Mike

04/19/2009 08:25:37 PM

Where is your Bible Verse David?? Yeah thats what I thought! Maybe you are gay dave!

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Sister Mary Helen

04/19/2009 06:37:23 PM

One of these days Zeus and Hera are going to make a comeback, and then, boy will all those christians be sorry. Lightning bolts, people... Lightning bolts... You think about that...

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Melissa Ott

04/19/2009 02:51:12 PM

I agree with "CameraChris". It's sickening to see how many people are full of such hatred. I for one, will teach my child to show God's love toward everyone. I commend the University, the Diversity Council and the people who organized this event, it was very meaningful and this community needs the experience.

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High Priest of Reason

04/19/2009 10:54:02 AM

In primitive times, reproduction replenished and grew tribes' fighting forces. Couple that with Israel's 'peculiar people' status (no swine, mixed garments, etc.), this is where the homosexual proscription comes from. Nothing moral or scientific about the proscription, otherwise. Of course, you have to read books beside the Bible to learn that.

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Whatever

04/19/2009 06:20:09 AM

Gay mom of Greenville.

You need to learn how to spell and use proper grammer. You are teaching your kid to live your Gross lifestyle and bad english and how to misspell. great job parent of the year....NOT

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Roll my eyes

04/18/2009 07:09:03 PM

Two quotes come to mind. The prudery of the concern about what people do when naked contributes daily to the surplus of human misery. Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction. Get a life, zealots and stop wasting your breath.

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David McGowan

04/18/2009 02:25:03 PM

Makes me wonder how you procreated two young kids?

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gay mom of greenville

04/18/2009 12:10:18 PM

to jackie cont.
It's bad enough I have to witness "hetersexual" public love making,... ah how did you put it? oh ya " I do not want to witness someone killing another person any more than I want to witness sexual immorality". stop hetersexual immorality

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gay mom of greenville

04/18/2009 11:52:12 AM

to jackie, my partner & I of 15yrs have two young kids. we recestly went out to a local family resturuant with our children. expecting clean family fun. while waiting for our table, there in front of God and everyone was a young "hetersexual" couple sucking face to beat the band. cont...

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attends/manpower

04/18/2009 01:21:11 AM

why can't people just let each other live there life's the way they want to, neither one of us are god, he is the judge of us all,come on folks JUST GET ALONG!!!!there not one person in pitt county that is not with out sin, and you know whom i'm speaking about, half of then men in this city have already been with a gay guy,some would be surprised to know how many that have and still do it,even those so-called married men!!!

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miss gay greenville1982

04/18/2009 01:08:29 AM

i know david mcgowan from paperpak, he has always been a gay basher, but he has forgotton when he was younger in meadowbrook.

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Lisa Gaston

04/18/2009 12:40:47 AM

The article is well balance and greatly appreciated. I believe what Pat O'Connell to say be exceptional.

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David McGowan

04/17/2009 10:39:18 PM

for Mike:

I am happy to see you profess your love & support for people whom killed in the article.

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Mike

04/17/2009 10:02:49 PM

David M You have alot of hate in you don't you? Why do you care about someone's sexuality? Sounds like you have some demons within you that you don't want to deal with. You need something to do, go find a verse in the Bible where "Jesus Says Homosexuality is a sin" then get back to us. We should hear from you in about oh NEVER!! You are an absolute ignorant ***!!!

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Reality

04/17/2009 05:40:34 PM

"was"

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Reality

04/17/2009 05:39:56 PM

Me

There is no such thing as hell. The word hell was given a different meaning when it was translated into Latin. This used as a tactic to scare the masses. Any ways, don't people that judge others go to hell???

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Diversity, Not Religion

04/17/2009 05:28:42 PM

Great article, Kristin! It's a shame the bible has to be incorporated into conversations like this. People need a clue, there is no god, heaven or hell and they know it. Just learn to appreciate the human experience for what it is and focus on yourself and your time here.

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Leslie

04/17/2009 04:57:55 PM

It's amazing that nowhere in the Bible does Jesus himself address homosexuality. God made everyone, and it's time for people to be accepting of all individuals-no matter their sexual orientation, race, religious beliefs, etc. Everyone should have the same rights.

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Jason

04/17/2009 04:56:57 PM

I also don't understand why people are surprised ECU is so inclusive of diversity. Look at any university: UNCCH holds the Unity conference every year, drawing hundreds of people from all over the South Eastern US; Duke hosts the annual NC Pride Parade and the Equality NC Conference, drawing thousands. In the grand scheme of things - ECU is far behind.

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Zl

04/17/2009 04:55:33 PM

We need to stop the ignorance and hatred that fills the world and even our little town of Greenville. I'm glad this article was posted and that it has gotten so much attention.

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Jason

04/17/2009 04:54:09 PM

What a great article. It's very well written and excites people - in good and bad ways. I'm so glad the Reflector ran this story. People are always surprised to hear about the GLBT community, as if it's a new thing that just popped up. We've been here forever, and we're staying forever.

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Zl

04/17/2009 04:50:53 PM

I am a 24 year old hetersexual female student at ECU. I whole-heartedly support this group at our school. Students should be exposed to all sorts of ways of life- that's what social diversity is! Everyone should be allowed to love whomever he or she wants, no matter their sex, race, or nationality.

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What if?

04/17/2009 04:38:09 PM

What if there is no God? Me: you will have spent your life hating and criticizing others for no good reason. Get your head out of your ***.

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To Me:

04/17/2009 04:35:43 PM

Yes, and you conservatives love to twist the bible for your own hateful uses. Religion has nothing to do with the fact that some humans are born gay. And yes, they are born that way. Who in their right mind would choose to live a lifestyle that is criticized and treated with such hostility by ignorant people such as yourself.

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Me

04/17/2009 04:03:36 PM

You liberals misuse of the Bible is laughable. First and foremost, we are to have no other gods before God. Loving our neighbor comes next. But we are not to tolerate evil. Yes, adultery, divorce, and other such things are sin and we abhor them. That doesn't make homosexuality any more acceptable. God states over and over that it is sinful and that those who engage in it will go to Hell. All your arguments and rationalization cannot change that fact!

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Reality

04/17/2009 03:42:45 PM

Sinful behavior
Funny, how you think I am gay just because I support homosexuals.

I know for a fact "God" really displeases people who break the sacrament of marriage by getting a divorce. Funny, nobody rants and raves about people getting divorces. One day I see every state in the U.S. accepting gay marriage just like they do with divorces. Hey, you open the door and that is what you get...what a bunch of hypocrites.

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To Pokey

04/17/2009 03:26:17 PM

Sorry, the first time I said "cleansed," I meant to say "healed."

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To Pokey

04/17/2009 03:25:42 PM

I looked up what you were talking about, and it seems like that procedure was done if a leper was already cleansed and not as a method of curing the disease.

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NB,NY transplant

04/17/2009 03:21:20 PM

everyone here who says being gay or bisexual is wrong should keep their opinions to themselves. i know so many people who are this way and thats their choice, i dont try to change them or anything. they're my friends so i accept them for who they are!

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Michelle Michaels

04/17/2009 03:04:24 PM

wow reading the comments about this article truly shows the need for this article to be written. Such hatred and closemindedness truly breaks down a community instead of building up. Love thy neighbor is the message of the bible. It also states that the only one to judge is god. Are you perfect I think not. Stop judging others untill there are no flaws within.

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Pokey

04/17/2009 02:42:58 PM

Also, the bible says that you can cure leprosy via killing a bird in an earthenware container over running water. Clearly, the bible is infallible about everything! Oh that's right... it's only infallible when you want to justify something you believe!

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Me

04/17/2009 02:36:21 PM

To Kevin B: So you said that girls aren't for you. Apparently Heaven won't be either...

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Mecca

04/17/2009 02:17:59 PM

Kudos to Kevin B!! Don't let these ignorant hicks bring you down. I am straight but I fully support the Gay community. I am glad ECU allowed for some diversity. DIVERSITY is what this backwards hick ignorant county NEEDS. GROW UP IT's 2009 people. Not everyone HAS TO BE A WHITE STRAIGHT CHRISTIAN in order to be a good person. Pratice what you preach and hate the sin not the sinner.

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LivinginGreenville

04/17/2009 01:41:57 PM

What do you think God hates more, certain sexual orientations or hate and violence? I've read the Bible several times and I'm pretty sure that "Love thy neighbor" is the most important message.

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Kevin B

04/17/2009 01:38:52 PM

As long as I am allowed to speak my voice, as long as I have breath in my lungs, as long as the blood that flows in my body keeps flowing. I will speak my opinion. I have no problem with someone else speaking their opinion. I believe in Freedom of Speech fully. So you have your right to say what you want, but I will always have my right to speak right back.

Thank you.

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YEA I SAID IT

04/17/2009 01:34:43 PM

HELLLO ALL

GLAD TO SEE WE CAN STAY ON TOPIC :) I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAY PEOPLE AS LONG AS THEY DONT BOTHER ME. BEING GAY IS WRONG.

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To Kevin B.

04/17/2009 01:34:40 PM

Why do you waste your time trying to explain to someone what you do? It's your lifestyle and if Mr. Mcgowan wants to keep bashing you and you keep defending yourself then you express your guilt..

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David McGowan

04/17/2009 01:30:36 PM

Born homosexual is akin to being born an animal lover. You love your dog so much you start having sex with your dog. Then you want me to accept your deviant behavior. No thanks.

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Kevin B

04/17/2009 01:24:45 PM

Well sir, all I have to say is, "Don't knock it till you tried it." I know plenty of straight men that do that to their wives/girlfriends. Also, I know plenty of straight men that like their wives/girlfriends to do stuff to their prostate. So... again I repeat dont knock it till you have tried it. Because I have been with a girl and all I can say is it is not for me.

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David McGowan

04/17/2009 01:13:03 PM

for Kevin B:

How are you stupid? You have to agree attempting to fornicate with another man in the anus is not exactly smart.

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Sinful behavior

04/17/2009 01:04:46 PM

To:Reality

A eunuch is a castrated man or incapable of reproduction, NOT a homosexual.

Homosexuality is a SIN like alot of other things. Repent Repent and turn from your sin. One day every knee shall bow to the King of Kings. Just because some don't beleive doesn't make it not true.

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Kevin B

04/17/2009 01:01:22 PM

To David McGowan

How am I stupid? I attend a University. I am graduating with my BS degree this May. Stupidity is not contingent upon sexual orientation, stupidity is contingent upon ignorance, and ignorant is what you are. So who's stupid, stupid. :D

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David McGowan

04/17/2009 12:59:18 PM

for Reality:

You can twist the prose of the Bible to believe what you want to believe.

The fact is, if you are a homosexual, you are a sexual deviant. It's just that simple.

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Reality

04/17/2009 12:27:58 PM

Even in the bible it clearly states that some people are born gay.

Matthew 19:12

“For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb, some are made eunuchs by men, and some make themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.” He begins and ends this very strange statement by saying, “Not everyone can accept this statement…Only those whom God helps….Let anyone who can, accept my statement.”

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David McGowan

04/17/2009 12:09:44 PM

Born homosexual? Impossible. A more plausible excuse would be you were born stupid and too weak to learn.

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Kevin B

04/17/2009 11:54:24 AM

To Suscriber

I am 22, I am gay. I first noticed that I liked guys when I was 5 years old. And dont go saying something bad must have happened to make me this way. Nothing bad happened so explain to me why at such a young age I liked guys?

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Toni

04/17/2009 11:49:10 AM

I am impressed with the Daily Reflector for presenting this issue and in a very balanced way. I'd also like to point out that ECU is an institution of and for ADULTS. The students aren't children anymore, mom, and you can no longer shelter them or choose their lifestyle.

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Suscriber

04/17/2009 11:48:39 AM

To Reality

Nobody is born gay...that is just a sob story excuse for people that can't deal with reality or can't find anyone interested in them. If you will observe boys and girls playing in a daycare you can see, even at that early age, the interest between boys and girls.

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